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So Pamela you all have successful careers, lives even your kids have become "far better than anyone could expect". Still, the power that I gained from finally ending a long, verbally abusive relationship made me feel optimistic, if not exactly confident, about going out there into the dating scene. Online dating is mostly good for women not so for men.
I missed my turn long ago, so I'm not surprised at how things played out for me.
Whether you're single, divorced, or widowed, you'll find help here on how to find men/women just like you out there, looking for companionship with someone who they can relate to.
Very rarely does a man my age ask me out or even flirt with me. I don't know the answer.it does help to know that you aren't alone. I would love to date for friendship, but heterosexual men see that as a way of playing them without interest in genuine relationships (translation: sex). The dating pool for both sexes over 40 is very marginal I've found.
They think it's a waste of time to just get to know someone. I met a variety of men, mostly gentlemen, and finally found that special one. Find someone who has some of your interests and can introduce you to something new. I am apparently the woman that men use to cover up their relationships with other women. I'm in the front girl, the other girl, the nice one who plays by the rules while they cheat. You're dealing with lots of broken and damaged people.
Its just odd I don't really come across any other 40 year olds, women or men, despite being a very active person who belongs to hobby and social groups, goes to the gym daily.
Yet I never even see another single person my age to not only date, but just for friendship. Men my age lie about their age to attract younger women...women my age lie about their age to attract men their own age.
" As I start to think about dipping my toe into the post-divorce dating over 40 pool, I do so with a renewed sense of my own beauty, wisdom, humor, perspective, power and choice. My problem is suddenly after hitting 40 I am being chased by men both much older and much younger than me. Why do they think a 44 yr old woman wants to date a 28 yr old guy?
What's even worse is I'm lesbian, but that's another story.Its just very awkward and somewhat insulting to be approached only by those old enough to be your parents or young enough to be your child. I too get attention from men in their late 60's and early 70's.I also get a lot of attention from men in their 30's.Other women end up divorced, or widowed and need someone to fill in that gap and lift them from the depths of solitude, ultimately finding happiness.It can be a tiring time of going from one sad date to the next, but nonetheless at least you are willing and open to try.The good folks go early, and after 50 it's really bad.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating