Dating fat ladies and men
I was catfished, stood up, and lied to multiple times. One guy had a girlfriend and was looking for someone to ‘join the relationship’ (yes a threesome) another had a girlfriend, (I only found out when she tracked me down and sent me an e-mail with photographic evidence warning me of his ‘ways’ and a thinly veiled warning of b*tch get away from my man).
There was the sexy ex-military guy turned comedian who lived with his mum, the gun enthusiast who ran me through what he’d do to an intruder (taser them until they poop themselves wait for them to wake and taser them again apparently), the super nice Spaniard (there was no spark but we loved the bottomless champagne and orange juice at brunch), and the lumbersexual I met while shooting a movie (he was an extremely tall hipster and I wondered if he’d ever actually chopped wood). The good guys I dated were a bit middle of the road with no spark. No one freaked when they saw I was fat in real life as well as in my dating profile. He said he was single (he’d been married 33 years). He said he was a property developer (he was a CFO for a rapper worth 0M).
Fat girls are warm Whichever way you understand ‘warm’, that is exactly what I mean. They are welcoming and when cuddling one feels at ‘home’.
Their warmth can turn you on anytime like a bulb Willingness to try any type of food.
A fat girl isn’t exactly what some men dream of dating.
It may come off as cruel but ask any guy and they’ll often tell you their idea of a dream date is someone who looks like their favorite model or celebrity.
They are charming Fat girls know very well that their looks will probably not arrest your attention like curvy smaller women.
To solve this they will often appear charming and sociable hence will click with you in no time.
One of the things that make a fat girl interesting to date is their ability to talk about anything.
Since they’ve made it a point to focus more on their brains and their personality instead of just their looks, they can engage you in a variety of topics that will keep you from being bored.
The quest for 50 Fat Dates continues so keep an eye out for date #19.
I’m going back to my ‘type’ and see what happens this time.
It’s a plus size dating quest not a string of sweaty one night stands. I was also aiming for a cross section of men so I didn’t go after the same ‘type’ of guy I always dated.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating